thank you, C.K. You're absolutely right. So many moms don't have the support they need, or if they DO, they get judgment from their family & friends on how to parent. Who needs that?

I mean I had my husband, and friends, but I was so depressed and overwhelmed, I'm not sure anyone could help me at that point. I just needed to get out of the PPD (should have taken meds). My husband helped alot, we did date nights, I joined a Moms Club, but chemical imbalance needs brain/hormone balancing....which I did with bioidentical hormones and supplements. Getting better sleep helped too.