Isn't it? Like we're selfish if we don't give them a sibling, even if we don't want another child. It's so weird to me that people insist people have kids who don't want them. And I wrote articles a while back that not only are only kids fine socially, they've found them to do better on average academically, than kids with siblings. I don't knock having siblings, I had five (none of us speaking, so......). But don't knock being an only.